Empowering Mothers of the Disabled for Partnership
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EMPOWERING MOTHERS OF THE DISABLED FOR PARTNERSHIP
By Pramila Balasundaram - Founder-Director of Samadhan, July 30, 2007 05:47 PM
THANKS FOR DONOR SUPPORT WE HAVE BEEN ABLE TO CONTINUE OUR TWO SELF HELP GROUPS ONE IN EACH OF OUR NODAL CENTERS IN DAKSHINPURI IN SOUTH DELHI AND THE OTHER IN WEST DELHI IN DWARKA.
EMPOWERING THE MOTHERS BY TRAINING THEM IN INCOME GENERATION SKILLS HAS HAD MANY BENEFITS.MOTHERS NOT ONLY EARN A MONTHLY INCOME BUT HAVE MADE AN IMPACT IN THE COMMUNITY TO WHICH THEY BELONG.THEY ARE NO LONGER SEEN AS MERE WIVES AND MOTHERS BUT AS GENERATORS OF INCOME AND CONSEQUENTLY PERCEPTIONS HAVE CHANGED. UNKNOWLINGLY THEY HAVE BECOME AGENTS OF CHANGE.THEIR MENTALLY HAMDICAPPED OFFSPRING NOW GET GREATER CARE AND THE WELFARE AND HEALTH OF THE WHOLE FAMILY MUCH IMPROVED.
IT IS NOT ONLY FINANCIAL IMPROVEMENT BUT IN SELF WORTH AND SELF CONFIDENCE AND AN INCREASED KNOWLEDGE ABOUT DISABILITY AND MENTAL HANDICAP IN PARTICULAR.
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Success Story: Women's Empowerment
By Pramila Balasundaram - , May 18, 2006 01:32 PM
Samadhan works with women whose children are disabled. Read one story of such a woman...
Kheema Devi is a member of the Self Help Group in Dakshinpuri Centre. She is around fifty years old and is the mother of three children Ganesh, Laxmi and Deepa. Ganesh and Laxmi are severely intellectually disabled. Kheema belongs to village Ogla in the Kumaon region at the foothills of the Himalayas. Kheema never attended any school. Her family did not want her to study and got her married to Pan Singh when she was seven and her husband was seventeen. Her husband has studied up to class five in the village school.
Khema's first child Ganesh was born when she was eighteen and Laxmi was born two years later. Initially neither Kheema nor did the family know about the disability of the children. Also Kheema's husband was away in Delhi and did not visit the family regularly. It was only when the third child, Deepa, was born Kheema's husband decided to bring the family to Dakshinpuri in South Delhi. Deepa was easily placed in the local government school. But Kheema could not admit Ganesh and Laxmi to any school because the school authorities refused to admit them because of their disability. So they both stayed at home with Kheema.
It was only when someone told her about Samadhan that Kheema brought Ganesh and Laxmi to the Rehabilitation Clinic in Dakshinpuri Centre. Both were assessed by the professional team and placed in the special education unit. Later Laxmi was sent to an organization Jan Madhyam for vocational training. She learnt to make paper bags, which helped her earn some income. Kheema and Ganesh joined the Self Help Group. Ganesh does the crucial step of soaking and pulping the newspapers which is used for making handicraft items of papier mache such as peacocks, parrots, elephants, flowers, beads etc. Both Kheema and Ganesh earn approximately Rs.1000 each. This is the only support to the family as Kheema's husband is out of a job because of poor vision and physical disability after was involved in two accidents.
Kheema has gained lot of confidence and strength over the years. All the women are given specific responsibilities in rotation, like purchase of raw materials and selling our products at the many festivals and functions where we are invited to open a stall of our products. Kheema does her share of work whenever it is her turn with great confidence. She is now a trainer and is given charge of new mothers who join the Self Help Group. Recently Kheema participated in The Big Fight, a program on the rights of people with disability organized by NDTV, an extremely popular channel and very reputed (New Delhi television) and answered questions confidently and shared her problems wit the TV audience.
Deepa, her youngest daughter is happily married and has two lovely daughters two and a half and one and half years old. Kheema agreed to her daughter's marriage although her daughter had gone against family traditions and instead of waiting for her family to find her "suitable match" had fallen in love! Kheema says that she realized that her experience of having two children with mental handicap has taught her that all persons should be "accepted " whoever they are.
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